In life sometimes akala natin para sa atin na yung bagay na yun because it comes to our life and become part of it pero ang hindi natin alam minsan God just want us to realize na hindi madali. Like what happened to my friend.
I have a friend named Pauline. This is how the story started. Pauline was the eldest out of 4 childrens of Mary-ann and Alfredo Bonrostro. Her mother was only an housewife at sumasideline lang minsan and her father was a truck driver. her two youngest sisters were still studying while her other sister stop studying because of financial problem and her sister decided to work to help her parents. Just like Pauline. Maybe Pauline is a undergraduate she has full of thoughts, have presence in mind and down to earth. Sometimes Pauline asked me "Paano kung mag-abroad na lang ako? Para kumita? Masaya kaya doon?" and I always answered "Ikaw bahala. Masaya mag-abroad pero sa tingin ko mahirap din" Sometimes she agree with me but I think sometimes napapaisip din siya. She always wish na sana makapag trabaho siya abroad para malaki kita. Sometimes we always talk about that thing. Sometimes when we talk we used another language so she will be practiced speaking other languages. Pauline keeps on praying na sana makapag-abroad ako. God is good. She received a news na may mura daw na ticket para makapunta sa macau para makapag trabaho. Siyempre di maiiwasang maging masaya. Di na niya sinayang ang opportunity dahil matagal na niyang pangarap ito. Mahaba-habang proseso and nilakad at inayos ni Pauline para makapunta doon. Mismong nangutang pa siya to make her dreams come true and to help her family na makaahon sa hirap ng buhay. Then after a month before his flight to Macau nagpadespidida pa siya for us. Finally,its July 2, 2014 at 12 noon is her flight. So Pauline was there in Macau. She thought na pagdating nila doon ok na ang lahat but there still a problem. Before ka pala makapag trabaho in Macau you must atleast 20 above. Previously this 2nd week of August we were able to talk using Skype. She tell us what she's feeling right now. Its really really hard pala daw talaga mag abroad. She thought na its now her time para maabot ang pangarap hindi pa pala. "Patikim pa lang pala ni God yun sakin" sabi niya. "Pinarealize niya muna pala sa akin na mahirap, akala lang natin masarap, dahil sa mga nakikita nating gumaganda ang buhay dahil nag abroad pero madami ka pa palang pagdadaanan para matupad ang pangarap." She added. So I asked her "Ano na ang gagawin mo?" She answered "Wala, I need to stay here. Kailangan kong maghanap ng work." But last night her mother said to me that "Kung hindi mo(reffering to Pauline) na talaga kaya bumalik ka na ng Pinas kaysa yung nasa ibang bansa ka kung hindi ka naman masaya. Hayaan mo na yung mga chismosa/o ganyan talaga ang buhay tama man o mali ang gawin mo, may masasabi at masasabi ang tao." Very well said. Pauline still hoping and believeing that she will make her dreams come true.
Pauline said this "You have to be strong in your every decision you will make. Think wisely before doing it. And don't forget God to be with your every decisions because God is the only one who can help you in many ways especially if you were the only one in the fight." I agree with here Use your mind and heart in making your decisions in life because it will affect you happy ending. Once your decisions is wrong wala ng happy ending.
Its hard to get all things what we want. We need first to sacrifice and do everything to make it true. But don't forget God to thank and to ask for help. Remember that through God we can make it happened no matter how hard it is.
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